{"id":6858,"date":"2011-05-30T17:27:06","date_gmt":"2011-05-30T21:27:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/?p=6858"},"modified":"2011-05-31T08:05:51","modified_gmt":"2011-05-31T12:05:51","slug":"greg-mayo-craig-meyer-tony-maceli-and-guests-at-red-lion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/opticality.com\/blog\/2011\/05\/30\/greg-mayo-craig-meyer-tony-maceli-and-guests-at-red-lion\/","title":{"rendered":"Greg Mayo, Craig Meyer, Tony Maceli and Guests at Red Lion"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m a fanatical lover of great guitar playing. If that\u2019s news to you, welcome, this is likely your first time visiting here.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Candyrat Records\" href=\"http:\/\/www.candyrat.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Candyrat Records<\/a> has signed an impressive number of the top instrumental guitarists around. Every so often they schedule a tour with a number of their artists. We\u2019ve seen one that was headlined by <a title=\"Andy McKee\" href=\"http:\/\/www.andymckee.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Andy McKee<\/a> (<a title=\"Andy McKee with Antoine Dufour and Craig D'Andrea\" href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/2008\/02\/18\/andy-mckee-with-antoine-dufour-and-craig-dandrea\/\" target=\"_blank\">covered here<\/a>). It was as good as I hoped\/expected.<\/p>\n<p>Two months ago I saw that Candyrat scheduled a show at Rockwood 2 with four players, two of whom were new to me, but the other two I own all of their CDs. I was 90% sure that we would attend. I can\u2019t explain why I didn\u2019t buy tickets in advance (that\u2019s my modus operandi) but I kept procrastinating. As the day got closer, I became more sure that we would attend.<\/p>\n<p>Then this past week <em>happened<\/em>. We were out six nights in a row, most of which were long and very late (for us). On Saturday morning, knowing we\u2019d be out late that night, I told Lois that I changed my mind, we\u2019d skip the Candyrat show and head to the house for a much-needed <strong>collapsing<\/strong>. Ah well, the best laid plans\u2026<\/p>\n<p>I come to praise Twitter, not to bury it. <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wlEmoticon wlEmoticon-winkingsmile\" style=\"border-style: none;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/wlEmoticon-winkingsmile16.png\" alt=\"Winking smile\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve repeatedly promoted the fact that you should follow your favorite artists on Twitter because you will often learn about late-breaking shows. Fortunately (or unfortunately if sleep is desperately needed!) <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wlEmoticon wlEmoticon-winkingsmile\" style=\"border-style: none;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/wlEmoticon-winkingsmile16.png\" alt=\"Winking smile\" \/> that\u2019s exactly what happened mid-day yesterday. I noticed the following tweet from <a title=\"Greg Mayo\" href=\"http:\/\/www.gregmayo.net\/\" target=\"_blank\">Greg Mayo<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Tonight I&#8217;m taking requests with my good friend <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/CraigJMeyer\">@CraigJMeyer<\/a> at the Red Lion 7:30 to 10:30&#8230;beware, I only know 6 songs, so request wisely<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #555555;\">For the newbies here, in <a title=\"Martin Rivas and Robbie Gil at Rockwood Music Hall Stage 2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/2011\/05\/29\/martin-rivas-and-robbie-gil-at-rockwood-music-hall-stage-2\/\" target=\"_blank\">yesterday\u2019s post<\/a>, I anointed myself <strong>President of the <\/strong><strong>Greg Mayo<\/strong><strong> Fan Club<\/strong>. It felt unseemly to shirk my Presidential duties the very next day. So, sleep be damned, our plans changed on the spot.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #555555;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/GregMayoSettingUp.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"GregMayoSettingUp\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/GregMayoSettingUp_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"GregMayoSettingUp\" width=\"167\" height=\"242\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #555555;\">We arrived at the <a title=\"Red Lion\" href=\"http:\/\/www.redlionnyc.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Red Lion<\/a> (our first time there, though we\u2019ve heard about it many times) at 7:25pm. Our first (of many!) surprises was revealed before we even got to step inside. Standing on the street with his bass strapped to his back was <a title=\"Tony Maceli\" href=\"http:\/\/www.myspace.com\/tonymaceli\" target=\"_blank\">Tony Maceli<\/a>, one of our favorite people (oh yeah, and also a great bass player, but who cares about that part, right?). <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wlEmoticon wlEmoticon-winkingsmile\" style=\"border-style: none;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/wlEmoticon-winkingsmile16.png\" alt=\"Winking smile\" \/> Since everything I knew about this <em>show<\/em> (you\u2019ll understand the italics in a minute) was contained in the tweet above, I had no idea that Tony was sitting in with Greg and Craig.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>When we walked in I spotted <a title=\"Bri Arden\" href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/pages\/Bri-Arden-Music\/108908470972\" target=\"_blank\">Bri Arden<\/a>. I really enjoyed her rendition of Proud Mary at the Soul Benefit we attended. I\u2019ve been following her since, but haven\u2019t been around when she\u2019s performed her own set. I introduced myself and headed to the table Lois had already grabbed, where she was sitting with Tony\u2019s girlfriend. (Surprise <a rel=\"tag\" class=\"hashtag u-tag u-category\" href=\"https:\/\/opticality.com\/blog\/tag\/2\/\">#2<\/a> and #3)<\/p>\n<p>I looked at the beer list and was happily surprised (#4) to see they had Smithwick\u2019s on draught! (It\u2019s pronounced Smiddick\u2019s, for those of you who haven\u2019t had the pleasure of having that explained to you in a pub in Ireland, when you are first introduced to Guinness\u2019 biggest competitor). I also saw they serve food there (surprise #5) so I had a yummy garlic hummus plate (we ate a late-ish lunch and ran out thinking we\u2019d skip dinner).<\/p>\n<p>I left my beer for a minute when I noticed that <a title=\"Sierra Noble\" href=\"http:\/\/www.sierranoble.ca\/\" target=\"_blank\">Sierra Noble<\/a> sat down at the same table Bri Arden was at. Tony Maceli was chatting with them. I knew that Sierra just arrived in town that day (from her tweets) and I wanted to introduce myself and share the small world story that I had blogged about her <strong>amazing<\/strong> song, Human After All. She cut me off by telling me she had read that post! Sweet! I was honored and humbled. (#6, I\u2019m keeping count for the lazy and math-challenged among you!)<\/p>\n<p>Oh yeah, there was also music, but since it hadn\u2019t started yet, I filled in the time by telling you the above. Now we\u2019re back in sync.<\/p>\n<p>The music part of this post will be split into two logical sections. They occurred largely at the same time (with a three-song delay), but hopefully, you\u2019ll understand why I\u2019m splitting them up (if not, send me a lot of money and I\u2019ll cover these events <strong>your<\/strong> way!). <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wlEmoticon wlEmoticon-winkingsmile\" style=\"border-style: none;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/wlEmoticon-winkingsmile16.png\" alt=\"Winking smile\" \/><\/p>\n<p>First, the purely musical aspect of the night. So, I see tweets all the time from <a title=\"Martin Rivas\" href=\"http:\/\/www.myspace.com\/martinrivas\" target=\"_blank\">Martin Rivas<\/a> and <a title=\"Craig Meyer\" href=\"http:\/\/web.mac.com\/cjmdrum\/iWeb\/Site\/Home.html\" target=\"_blank\">Craig Meyer<\/a> that they will be playing at Red Lion (they do a series there called Campfire, and they play there regularly otherwise as well). I think Martin was out of town either celebrating the day after his Birthday, or more likely, recovering from an alcohol infused daze. So, I think Craig invited Greg to sit in for Martin.<\/p>\n<p>The core of the musical group, sitting left-to-right on stage:<\/p>\n<p>Craig Meyer on drums and vocals. I can\u2019t recall Craig ever singing before, so this was a welcome surprise (#7). A much bigger surprise was that Craig handled the MC duties throughout the two sets (they took a 20+ minute intermission). He was clever, charming, quick, funny and did it all in a rich, deep, radio DJ like voice. Clearly, there are many dimensions of Craig we were unexposed to, that we now know we need to mind. (#8).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/CraigMeyerDrums1.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"CraigMeyerDrums\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/CraigMeyerDrums_thumb1.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"CraigMeyerDrums\" width=\"185\" height=\"242\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Greg Mayo on acoustic guitar and vocals. What? Acoustic? Hell yeah! This was the first time we\u2019ve seen Greg with an acoustic guitar. Hopefully it won\u2019t be the last. (#9). If you ask me whether he handled it with the same skill and ease that he exhibits on an electric, I\u2019ll have to deny you membership to the Greg Mayo Fan Club (when you send your application, please include your dues, checks should be made out directly to me, PayPal gladly accepted!).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/GregMayoRippingItUp.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"GregMayoRippingItUp\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/GregMayoRippingItUp_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"GregMayoRippingItUp\" width=\"171\" height=\"242\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Tony Maceli on electric bass and <strong>vocals<\/strong>. Yes, vocals, and I\u2019m not talking some way in the background harmony. Tony took the lead on a number of songs (I\u2019ll be more specific in the <em>next<\/em> section) and sang more forcefully on the backgrounds on the others. (#10). I\u2019ve always loved Tony\u2019s bass play, largely because it\u2019s understated but always appropriate to whomever he\u2019s playing side-man to. Last night Tony took <strong>many<\/strong> full-on bass leads, a number of them a very high speed. <strong>Wonderful<\/strong>! (I won\u2019t count that as a surprise, since I knew Tony had the skills, he just hadn\u2019t busted them out in front of me yet.)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/TonyMaceliSinging.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"TonyMaceliSinging\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/TonyMaceliSinging_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"TonyMaceliSinging\" width=\"176\" height=\"242\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The music was planned to be covers all night, but I didn\u2019t know if there was a theme. Greg kicked it off with back-to-back Jazzy\/Blues numbers, then shifted to some Soul. If the rest of the night hadn\u2019t turned into what it did (see section two, shortly), and I hadn\u2019t had a second Smithwick\u2019s (Yeshhh, after all, Ireland is pretty close to Scotland!), I would probably remember which artist they were covering, as every song was a super-famous classic (I\u2019ve never mentioned this, I don\u2019t take notes, every blog is completely from memory, hence all the errors and omissions).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/CraigMeyerGregMayoTonyMaceli.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"CraigMeyerGregMayoTonyMaceli\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/CraigMeyerGregMayoTonyMaceli_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"CraigMeyerGregMayoTonyMaceli\" width=\"244\" height=\"138\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>After the fourth number, Greg revealed the theme: they were planning to do two songs by each artist and move on to the next. Simple enough. Of course, just like my original plans for the evening, that isn\u2019t the way it played out. In fact, immediately after announcing that, everything changed\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Before shifting gears I\u2019ll note that during the first few numbers, I noticed <a title=\"Christina Morelli\" href=\"http:\/\/web.me.com\/cmorelli26\/ChristinaMorelli\/Home.html\" target=\"_blank\">Christina Morelli<\/a> was there as well. I want to pad my surprise count, but saying that I am surprised to see Christina at a show that I\u2019m at would be disingenuous. In fact, I could save myself time and effort and just hack into her Calendar and stop maintaining my own! <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wlEmoticon wlEmoticon-winkingsmile\" style=\"border-style: none;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/wlEmoticon-winkingsmile16.png\" alt=\"Winking smile\" \/><\/p>\n<p>While I didn\u2019t connect with Christina last night, Lois went over to introduce herself, so between last night and the night before, Christina has met our entire family. <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wlEmoticon wlEmoticon-smile\" style=\"border-style: none;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/wlEmoticon-smile15.png\" alt=\"Smile\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Before (finally) moving on, let me just summarize that the music was fantastic all night (roughly two hours split over two sets). Last caveat, I\u2019m reasonably sure I\u2019ll mess up the order of some of the songs and guests below. You\u2019ll have to excuse my still-delicious haze. I give you permission to correct me if you were there, or permission to imagine it in any order you\u2019d rather if you weren\u2019t. <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wlEmoticon wlEmoticon-winkingsmile\" style=\"border-style: none;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/wlEmoticon-winkingsmile16.png\" alt=\"Winking smile\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Having never been to the Red Lion before, and having never clicked on any of the Campfire YouTube videos either, I really had no idea what to expect. The minute we walked in, it was obvious that this was a pub-style restaurant where the music was meant to be more of a live jukebox. In other words, this wasn\u2019t a <em>listening room<\/em>. That\u2019s fine. One of my best night\u2019s out was at Mona\u2019s, listening to <a title=\"Dennis Lichtman\" href=\"http:\/\/www.dennislichtman.com\" target=\"_blank\">Dennis Lichtman<\/a> and Mona\u2019s Hot Four, while 80% of the people at the bar were socializing loudly (for a while, including me, oops!). It\u2019s all about context (to me at least).<\/p>\n<p>We were at the table closest to the stage, in front of Greg (center-stage). I figured that no matter what went on around us, I could tune in to the music and squelch the inevitable bar noise.<\/p>\n<p>That turned out to be true (sort-of), but in a way I never anticipated. Starting at the very first song, a group of people (mostly women) at the table to our left started singing loudly along with Greg. I still had no idea what would come next. This could devolve, or get very interesting.<\/p>\n<p>Craig (in his role as MC) engaged them directly. He asked where they were from and they said NJ. For the rest of the night, Craig referred to them as <em>The Jersey Girls<\/em>, which was an effective way of differentiating them (you\u2019ll understand in a minute).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/CraigMeyer1.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"CraigMeyer\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/CraigMeyer_thumb1.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"CraigMeyer\" width=\"167\" height=\"243\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>When Greg started the third song, Lois turned to me and Amy (Tony\u2019s girlfriend) and said \u201cAsk Greg to play Oh Bla Di\u201d. I have <strong>never<\/strong> heard Lois ask for a Beatles song. Even though Lois controls the iPod in the car, not once has she put on a Beatles song (even though I have 90 on there!). I was in shock, which caused me to not call it out. I didn\u2019t even know whether The Beatles were in their repertoire.<\/p>\n<p>If you read yesterday\u2019s post, then you know I said this:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Lois has a way of bending the universe to her will (if you know her, you know I\u2019m not exaggerating!).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>You\u2019ll have to read the rest to figure out how that played out Fri\/Sat, but I\u2019ll tell you how it worked out here. Note that I mentioned the theme of the night wasn\u2019t revealed until after the fourth song, so we didn\u2019t yet realize that they would be running through many different artists when Lois asked me for this song.<\/p>\n<p>Well, the next artist up after the fourth song was, Ta Da, The Beatles! The song wasn\u2019t Oh Bla Di, but hey, you never know! Well, you never know, unless you\u2019re married to Lois. I bet you\u2019re all way ahead of me, because song number six was indeed Oh Bla Di, and none of the people at our table said a peep, so there\u2019s no way Greg could have known (from us) that Lois wanted to hear it. Thanks Universe! (Unfortunately, as with Christina Morelli being there, it would be cheating to count this as a surprise, even though it seemed like an impossibility!)<\/p>\n<p>By this time, people were rolling into the bar on a consistent basis. When you couple the quality of the music, with the classic nature of the songs, it\u2019s not even marginally surprising that most newcomers stopped by the stage to listen and <strong>sing along<\/strong>, loudly! The Jersey Girls (TJG) were only the beginning of a trend.<\/p>\n<p>Even though Greg said they would play Beatles songs until they (or we) got tired of it, that didn\u2019t happen. I may have the order wrong, but they quickly switched gears, and next up might have been Stevie Wonder. At some point, both Bri Arden and Sierra Noble got on the stage and sang backup vocals (on two songs). Folks, each of them is a bona-fide lead vocalist that you should <strong>never<\/strong> miss an opportunity to hear. Adding them as background vocalists was fun and great, even though it was short-lived. (#11)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/SierraNobleBriArden.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"SierraNobleBriArden\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/SierraNobleBriArden_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"SierraNobleBriArden\" width=\"188\" height=\"262\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>A few sailors came in (it is Memorial Day Weekend, and therefore <strong>Fleet Week<\/strong> as well!). It\u2019s always great to be around our Military (at least it is for me!), but it\u2019s obviously more special when we remember those that gave their lives so that we could get silly (not that I\u2019ve gotten to the silly part yet!) in a bar in Greenwich Village. We salute you all! TJG did their part and danced with the sailors.<\/p>\n<p>Minutes later the night took a dramatic turn. Eight girls walked in front of us (between us and the stage), semi-danced while they were in front of the stage (to acknowledge the great music\/band) as they made their way to the bar. We all noticed them because each of them had neon glow necklaces on. Clearly, something was going on.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/NeonNecklaces.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"NeonNecklaces\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/NeonNecklaces_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"NeonNecklaces\" width=\"229\" height=\"244\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Craig broke into a fabulous rendition of Bust a Move by Young MC. The crowd went nuts! If he stopped rapping for a second, the next words could easily be heard out of a dozen different people. Craig raps? (#12)<\/p>\n<p>Immediately thereafter (remember, I\u2019m making up the order as I go along) <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wlEmoticon wlEmoticon-winkingsmile\" style=\"border-style: none;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/wlEmoticon-winkingsmile16.png\" alt=\"Winking smile\" \/> Craig was on top of his MC duties. He asked the necklaced women what was going on. It was a Bachelorette\u00a0 party. He asked who the bride-to-be was, and we were all introduced to Laura. Along with TJG, we had Laura and her entire bachelorette party (which grew beyond the initial eight) to focus on the rest of the night.<\/p>\n<p>Craig asked if he could have a neon necklace. Instead, they gave him a neon sticker (which Craig proudly wore the rest of the night) that said: \u201cFling, Fling before the Ring, Ring!\u201d. <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wlEmoticon wlEmoticon-smile\" style=\"border-style: none;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/wlEmoticon-smile15.png\" alt=\"Smile\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/CraigMeyerFlingFlingSticker.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"CraigMeyerFlingFlingSticker\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/CraigMeyerFlingFlingSticker_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"CraigMeyerFlingFlingSticker\" width=\"244\" height=\"224\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Craig asked if Laura had a <em>list<\/em> of things she needed to complete while at the bar (I didn\u2019t even know such a thing existed, perhaps because I never attended a bachelorette party before. At a bachelor party, the list is pretty short.) <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wlEmoticon wlEmoticon-winkingsmile\" style=\"border-style: none;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/wlEmoticon-winkingsmile16.png\" alt=\"Winking smile\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Not only did she have a list, they were neatly written out on flash cards. One of the attendees handed a card to Craig, who offered to try and help Laura get as many items checked off her list as he could. He was successful with at least two items (I might have missed a couple more). One of them was that Laura needed to get a random man in the bar to buy her a drink, by saying some unmentionable things to him. After Craig read that out loud (replacing the words \u201cunmentionable things\u201d with the <em>real<\/em> words), Laura was able to cross that one off a second later.<\/p>\n<p>Here are four of those flash cards:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/BachelorettePartyFlashCards.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"BachelorettePartyFlashCards\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/BachelorettePartyFlashCards_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"BachelorettePartyFlashCards\" width=\"244\" height=\"164\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The next one was <strong>Do The Twist<\/strong> with a stranger, for the entire song. Sure enough, the band instantly started playing The Twist, and one of the sailors played the part of the <em>stranger<\/em>. After the song (yes, she twisted the entire time), he lifted her up like Richard Gere does with Debra Winger at the end of An Officer and a Gentleman, to the delighted whoops of everyone who saw it. Laura ended up in the right bar on the right night. <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wlEmoticon wlEmoticon-smile\" style=\"border-style: none;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/wlEmoticon-smile15.png\" alt=\"Smile\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/SailorAndLauraTwisting.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"SailorAndLauraTwisting\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/SailorAndLauraTwisting_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"SailorAndLauraTwisting\" width=\"218\" height=\"243\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>While playing The Twist, the entire bachelorette party came out to dance (let\u2019s just officially call the area between our table and the stage, <strong>The Dance Floor<\/strong>). Many others joined them (including TJG), and it remained crowded the rest of the evening. The people who danced, along with the people who sat close by, continued to sing along on nearly every song.<\/p>\n<p>At one point, Craig invited Laura and her posse on stage to sing a couple of songs. They acquitted themselves very nicely!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/LauraAndPosse.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"LauraAndPosse\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/LauraAndPosse_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"LauraAndPosse\" width=\"244\" height=\"195\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Out of the blue, <a title=\"Chris Ayer\" href=\"http:\/\/www.myspace.com\/chrisayer\" target=\"_blank\">Chris Ayer<\/a> walks into the bar. For the newbies, he\u2019s another one who we can\u2019t get enough of (if I\u2019m the President of Greg\u2019s fan club, Lois is the Emperor of Chris\u2019). <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wlEmoticon wlEmoticon-winkingsmile\" style=\"border-style: none;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/wlEmoticon-winkingsmile16.png\" alt=\"Winking smile\" \/> Greg spots Chris (who apparently wasn\u2019t expected to be there, thanks again Twitter!), and announces that Chris would be joining them in a little bit to sing. Awesome! I\u2019m sure it was as big a surprise to Chris as it was to us. (#13).<\/p>\n<p>A few minutes later, a man in a hat walked in carrying a small saxophone case. He stood by the side of the stage for a song, and then walked across the dance floor very deliberately, looking at the band in what felt to me was like one gang eyeing another. What I didn\u2019t realize is that he knew them well (at least Craig, if not Greg too). He\u2019s played with Craig and Martin at the Red Lion many times (I found that out while Googling him). (#14)<\/p>\n<p>The sax player was <a title=\"Chuck Hancock\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/pages\/Chuck-Hancock\/109836085740871\" target=\"_blank\">Chuck Hancock<\/a> (I hope I linked to the correct person). Craig called him \u201cSir Chuck Hancock\u201d throughout the night. Googling for that made it easy to see that Martin and Craig always call him by that name. Whether others do is a task I\u2019ll leave to you!<\/p>\n<p>After getting to the other side of the stage, he unpacked his sax and got on stage next to Tony. He\u2019s an excellent sax player (he hits some extremely high notes so sweetly). He stayed on stage for much of the rest of the night and sang a bunch too (extremely well!). He took the lead vocals on Jackomo Fina Fina Nay. Trust me, that one got the crowd going too, since we all called back \u201cHey Now, Hey Now\u201d, etc.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/SirChuckHancockSax.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"SirChuckHancockSax\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/SirChuckHancockSax_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"SirChuckHancockSax\" width=\"125\" height=\"241\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>In yesterday\u2019s post I asked the rhetorical question: \u201cWho doesn\u2019t like a party?\u201d. Well, while I thought I was in the middle of a party already (at least a bachelorette one), it only got more fun (and raucous) from there. I think one TJG called out for some Tom Petty. If not, once Greg decided to shift to Tom Petty, they (and others!) wouldn\u2019t let him get off that theme for a while.<\/p>\n<p>What made it crank up a notch is that it was during The Tom Petty Portion of the Evening (henceforth known as TTPPotE) that we got to hear Tony Maceli belt out the vocals to a couple of songs.<\/p>\n<p>It was in TTPPotE that Chris Ayer came up and sang one. No disrespect to any of the other singers, but holy moly, with all that was going on in the room at the time, you could <strong>palpably feel<\/strong> everyone (in particular the women) take note of his voice and style of singing. (Seriously, Greg was awesome all night on the vocals, but do yourself a favor and check out Chris Ayer, you\u2019ll be amazed!).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/ChrisAyerSinging.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"ChrisAyerSinging\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/ChrisAyerSinging_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"ChrisAyerSinging\" width=\"96\" height=\"232\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>(<strong>Full Disclosure<\/strong>: The previous paragraph was sponsored by Lois, in her capacity as <strong>Emperor of the Chris Ayer Fan Club<\/strong>)<\/p>\n<p>Chris remained on stage for quite a while, singing mostly background vocals (I think he sang lead on one other number).<\/p>\n<p>A little later on I spotted <a title=\"John Schmitt\" href=\"http:\/\/www.myspace.com\/johnschmitt\" target=\"_blank\">John Schmitt<\/a> standing next to the stage. Sure enough, seconds later Craig announced that another special guest would be serenading us.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/JohnSchmitt1.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"JohnSchmitt\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/JohnSchmitt_thumb1.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"JohnSchmitt\" width=\"171\" height=\"242\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>They moved on to Paul Simon, with John Schmitt singing lead, including Me &amp; Julio, featuring Chris and Sir Chuck on background vocals (and Chuck tearing it up on the sax, again).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/ChrisAyerSirChuckHancock.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"ChrisAyerSirChuckHancock\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/ChrisAyerSirChuckHancock_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"ChrisAyerSirChuckHancock\" width=\"244\" height=\"230\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Later in the evening, Sir Chuck took his sax into the middle of the dance floor and serenaded Laura (the bride-to-be, in case you aren\u2019t paying attention any longer!), while she danced to his music, inches away.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/SirChuckHancockInTheCrowd.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"SirChuckHancockInTheCrowd\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/SirChuckHancockInTheCrowd_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"SirChuckHancockInTheCrowd\" width=\"244\" height=\"185\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m probably missing <strong>many<\/strong> more highlights, but it\u2019s all a blur now, and I\u2019m about to be late to what I expect will be a terrific Memorial Day BBQ at our friends\u2019 house. So, I\u2019ll just say that this turned out to be one of the most fun nights out, which is almost an incredulous statement given that it was our seventh night out in a row, all of which were amazing. To think that not only wasn\u2019t this planned, I didn\u2019t even know it was going to happen until that afternoon.<\/p>\n<p>We are grateful that we changed our plans (fan club membership has its privileges) and can\u2019t thank the band and all of the incredible guests for putting on more than a show, they hosted one of the best parties we\u2019ve ever attended.<\/p>\n<p>I can also scratch off <em>Attend a Bachelorette Party<\/em> from my bucket list. <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wlEmoticon wlEmoticon-winkingsmile\" style=\"border-style: none;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/wlEmoticon-winkingsmile16.png\" alt=\"Winking smile\" \/><\/p>\n<p>P.S. I couldn\u2019t finish the photos before I had to call our hosts and apologize for only being 30 minutes late (it ended up being 32 minutes). I\u2019m now at our friend\u2019s house, full and happy, and being anti-social by finishing this up. At least they have Verizon FiOS, so the upload will go faster than if I wait until I\u2019m back at the apartment.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m a fanatical lover of great guitar playing. If that\u2019s news to you, welcome, this is likely your first time visiting here. Candyrat Records has signed an impressive number of the top instrumental guitarists around. Every so often they schedule a tour with a number of their artists. 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