{"id":3519,"date":"2010-03-15T12:50:40","date_gmt":"2010-03-15T16:50:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/?p=3519"},"modified":"2010-03-15T12:59:07","modified_gmt":"2010-03-15T16:59:07","slug":"girlyman-at-southern-cafe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/opticality.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/15\/girlyman-at-southern-cafe\/","title":{"rendered":"Girlyman at Southern Cafe"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Another night, another <a title=\"Girlyman\" href=\"http:\/\/www.girlyman.com\" target=\"_blank\">Girlyman<\/a> concert. This one was in Charlottesville, at the relatively new <a title=\"The Southern Cafe\" href=\"http:\/\/thesoutherncville.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">The Southern Cafe<\/a>. This used to be Gravity Lounge. It changed hands and was gutted on the inside.<\/p>\n<p>Last night was the final show in the current East Coast tour for Girlyman. I can only imagine how exhausted they were. Thankfully, none of that was projected on the audience, as they performed with incredible energy over two sets.<\/p>\n<p>All of the <a title=\"Girlyman at Jammin' Java\" href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/14\/girlyman-at-jammin-java\/\" target=\"_blank\">praise I heaped on them<\/a> for the show the previous night applied last night. They varied the set list a lot, with at least half of the songs swapped from the night before. Their banter was almost 100% fresh. One of the reasons that this is almost always true for Girlyman is that they feed off the crowd\u2019s reactions. They might start with a seed that they have in mind, or have used in a previous show, but each audience will take them in a completely different direction.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/DorisMuramatsu1.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"display: inline; border: 0px;\" title=\"DorisMuramatsu\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/DorisMuramatsu_thumb1.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"DorisMuramatsu\" width=\"191\" height=\"243\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>There were more, and longer tuning songs last night. Not because Ty and Doris had more trouble tuning, but because they got <em>stuck<\/em> (in the best sense) on a particular theme\/interplay and drove a truck through it at every opportunity.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/NateBorofsky1.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"display: inline; border: 0px;\" title=\"NateBorofsky\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/NateBorofsky_thumb1.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"NateBorofsky\" width=\"157\" height=\"242\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Girlyman audiences are among the best, at every venue, on a consistent basis. They are true fans who make unreal noise between songs, and are reverently quiet during songs. That\u2019s all you can hope for.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/TyGreensteinMandolin.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"display: inline; border: 0px;\" title=\"TyGreensteinMandolin\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/TyGreensteinMandolin_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"TyGreensteinMandolin\" width=\"196\" height=\"243\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>They played a 45-minute set and took a break to sign merch and mingle with the audience (exactly like they did the night before at <a title=\"Jammin' Java\" href=\"http:\/\/jamminjava.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Jammin\u2019 Java<\/a>). They returned for a 70-minute set including a three song encore.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/JJJones1.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"display: inline; border: 0px;\" title=\"JJJones\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/JJJones_thumb1.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"JJJones\" width=\"184\" height=\"242\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The first song in the encore was the Girlyman Benediction. It\u2019s been quite a while since we\u2019ve seen them do it live, and it was fantastic (as it always is). In addition to their normal antics during the song (e.g., Doris does the belly-rubbing and head-patting motions at one point), adding <a title=\"JJ Jones\" href=\"http:\/\/www.myspace.com\/jjplaysdrums\" target=\"_blank\">JJ Jones<\/a> to the mix (the newest Girlyman) was <strong>hysterical<\/strong>. She was balancing drumsticks and water bottles, making it very hard to look anywhere else to see what the rest of them were doing. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/JJJonesBalancingDrumSticks.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"display: inline; border: 0px;\" title=\"JJJonesBalancingDrumSticks\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/JJJonesBalancingDrumSticks_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"JJJonesBalancingDrumSticks\" width=\"120\" height=\"240\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/JJJonesWaterBottle.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"display: inline; border: 0px;\" title=\"JJJonesWaterBottle\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/JJJonesWaterBottle_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"JJJonesWaterBottle\" width=\"176\" height=\"242\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Next they played the other encore favorite, Son of a Preacher Man, which has also been a while since we\u2019ve seen it. They closed the show with the amazing a cappella number, Up to the Sea (from the new CD) like they did the night before.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/GirlymanACappella.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"display: inline; border: 0px;\" title=\"GirlymanACappella\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/GirlymanACappella_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"GirlymanACappella\" width=\"244\" height=\"241\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>After the show Nate signed their latest CD for our friends. Lois bought one of their Everything\u2019s Easy T-Shirts (for me, since they were out of her size).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/NateBorofskySigningCD.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"display: inline; border: 0px;\" title=\"NateBorofskySigningCD\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/NateBorofskySigningCD_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"NateBorofskySigningCD\" width=\"244\" height=\"185\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/NateBorofskyWithFans.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"display: inline; border: 0px;\" title=\"NateBorofskyWithFans\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/NateBorofskyWithFans_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"NateBorofskyWithFans\" width=\"244\" height=\"181\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/ModelingMyTShirt.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"display: inline; border: 0px;\" title=\"ModelingMyT-Shirt\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/ModelingMyTShirt_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"ModelingMyT-Shirt\" width=\"244\" height=\"220\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Opening the show was <a title=\"Andy Moore\" href=\"http:\/\/www.andymooremusic.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Andy Moore<\/a>. We missed the beginning of Andy\u2019s set (my rant about that will come in a minute) but caught her last two numbers. She has a beautiful voice and accompanies herself well on an acoustic guitar. Very moving lyrics.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/AndyMoore.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"display: inline; border: 0px;\" title=\"AndyMoore\" src=\"https:\/\/www.opticality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/AndyMoore_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"AndyMoore\" width=\"231\" height=\"244\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Lois made up for our guilt of missing her entire set by buying two of her CDs, so we now have a chance to get to know her music better. We also spend a lot of time in Richmond, where she\u2019s based, so we might get to catch one of her shows there.<\/p>\n<p>The Southern Cafe is still relatively new, so it\u2019s important to cut them some slack while they get their sea legs. On the other hand, I\u2019ll still rant a bit in the hopes of sparing someone else what happened to us, and <em>encouraging<\/em> The Southern to get it together a bit more quickly than they seem to be.<\/p>\n<p>The show was listed for 8pm, with doors opening at 7pm. We wrote in advance because the website is one of the things that hasn\u2019t quite gotten fleshed out yet. They wrote back saying that the opening act would come on at 8pm, with Girlyman hitting the stage at around 8:30pm.<\/p>\n<p>We arrived at 6:20pm, and our guests arrived at 6:30, exactly when we asked them to. The doors to the cafe were already open (very welcome, since it was drizzling outside). We tried multiple times to order dinner, and each time were politely told that they wouldn\u2019t be taking orders until roughly 7pm (fine, that\u2019s when the doors were officially supposed to open).<\/p>\n<p>They did indeed take our order at 7pm. Even though it\u2019s traditional southern style comfort food (I had an amazing pulled pork sandwich with equally amazing sides of mac \u2018n cheese and slaw), it took forever to come out. The good news is that the food is good enough so that you should go there for lunch or dinner even if you\u2019re not interested in the music.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, while eating our food (which got to the table at around 7:35), we heard some applause. We ignored it while we ate, but then Lois got curious. She went to check it out, and it turns out that Andy Moore came on at 7:30. No announcement was made in the cafe part that we were sitting in. We wolfed down the rest of the food and caught the end of her set.<\/p>\n<p>Summary: The Southern Cafe is going to be a great venue for both food and music once they get their act together. You should still attend now, because the overall evening was <strong>fantastic<\/strong>, but, be aware that things might not be perfectly smooth, or as advertised, for the time being.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Another night, another Girlyman concert. This one was in Charlottesville, at the relatively new The Southern Cafe. This used to be Gravity Lounge. It changed hands and was gutted on the inside. Last night was the final show in the current East Coast tour for Girlyman. I can only imagine how exhausted they were. 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